Karen E. Quinones Miller's Loves, Hates, Rants & Raves... Letting It All Hang Out!
Tuesday, April 28, 2015
When Rioting Becomes a Necessary Evil
Karen E. Quinones Miller
THIS IS A CONTROVERSIAL POST, AND WHILE I WELCOME RESPONSES - BOTH PRO AND CON - I HOPE EVERYONE WILL BE COURTEOUS AND RESPECT THE OPINIONS OF OTHERS
I have always totally agreed with the protests in Baltimore, and after giving it a good amount of thought, I no longer have an issue with the rioting and rioters.
The citizens of Baltimore have tried to work within the system. This is evidenced by the fact that they have a Black mayor, Black police chief, Black U.S. Congressmen, and Blacks on their City Council. Not to mention that the city voted overwhelmingly for a Black U.S.President. So, please don't tell them that they need to stop rioting and start voting. They've done that.
And still the murder around the country of young Black men around the country, including their own Freddie Gray - whose only crime seems to be to have the audacity to have looked a police lieutenant directly in the eye, and then fleeing when the lieutenant approached him.
Freddie Gray is now dead and NOTHING anyone does will change that fact.
But who can blame the Black people in Baltimore for being frustrated? And while I first agreed with the protesting and decried the rioting, I've changed my mind.
I'm old enough to remember the 1967 riots. Detroit, Newark, Los Angeles, etc. Most, if not all, of those riots were sparked by police brutality. All of those riots took place in the areas in which the police brutality took place -- always in a black area -- and all resulted in millions of dollars in destruction.
Seems to me, though, those riots did have some result. They made the federal government sit up and pay attention. Congressional hearings were held; the President (Lyndon Baines Johnson) had a Commission (does anyone remember the name of the Commission? I've forgotten.)put together to investigate the underlying reasons for the rioting.
Millions of federal dollars poured into the neighborhoods destroyed by the rioting in order to rebuild, and -- more importantly -- millions of federal dollars were spent on social programs like pre-school which improved education, job training (remember Manpower, anyone?) and programs designed to better the relationships between the police and the community like the Police Athletic League (PAL). All of these programs no longer exist, by the way.
So let's not be so quick to condemn the rioting as senseless. It's what a group of people who have worked within the system resort to when that system lets them down.
I think the blame should be put on the system rather than the rioters.
And if someone can come up with a better way to get attention and bring about change, please speak up.
But don't tell me it's voting. Baltimore, with its Black police chief, Black City Council, Black Mayor, and our Black president proves that.
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ADDENDUM
Shortly after I posted this, President Obama went on television and made a statement regarding the Baltimore riot. Here's part of what he said:
But in a lengthy response to a question about the latest protest in response to the death of a young black man by police, Obama also said the problem is not new and that the entire country needs to "do some soul-searching."
"If we really want to solve the problem, we could. It would require everybody to say this is important, this is significant and that we just don't pay attention to these communities when a CVS burns, when a young man is shot or when his spine is snapped."
He said investment is needed in the communities to bring economic opportunity, including resources for early childhood education and criminal justice reform that breaks the school-to-prison pipeline that is "rendering young men in these communities unemployable." He called for job training programs as well as school reforms.
"That's hard," he said, adding that it "takes a kind of political motivation we haven't seen in quite some time."
"That was a really long answer but I felt pretty strongly about it," the president concluded.
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(Please note that the programs he says are needed are the EXACT programs that i stated were given after the '67 Riots.)
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Sunday, April 12, 2015
Oh Yeah! Losing Weight!!!!
Happy to report that when I weighed myself on April 6, I was down to 277 pounds! That's a 10 pound weight loss, y'all!
(In my best James Brown voice)
I FEEL GOOD . . . YOU KNEW THAT I WOULD . .. I FEEL GOOD . . . YOU KNEW THAT I WOULD . . . SO GOOD . . . SO GOOD . . . 'CAUSE I LOST 10 POUNDS!!!!
HEAYAH!
I know James Brown hadn't yet started wearing an Afro when he sung this song, but I decided to sport mine, anyway. <grin> This is a picture of me at my new 277 pound weight, taken yesterday, April 11th.
So a few days ago I posted on Facebook that I was on a diet, and the response was so touching I actually shed a couple of tears. Here's that April 9th post:

I can't believe how easy it is to stick to this diet. I have to stay under 1,270 calories a day, and I only messed up once in the last two weeks. I got an app, MyFitnessPal, that helps me count calories and log meals and exercise...and lets me know how close I am to my goal. This dinner of three chicken wings , one cup of white rice, six ounces of cabbage, with one tbsp of chicken fat (flavoring is a necessity!) comes to less than 600 calories! I'm doing well!!!!
(Actually the meal was 681 calories, but I was still 18 calories under my daily allowed limit!)
I don't know why I decided to share it on Facebook, I've been going back and forth as to whether I should share the journey, but, well . . . I'm definitely leaning toward it
I've been doing okay with my daily diet . . . but not great. The crazy thing is I sometimes -- in fact, quite often -- have trouble eating the required calories. I think one reason is the green smoothie that I have every day is so filling.
In fact, I kind of think that my starting on the green smoothie kick back in February is what has been making this weight-loss journey as easy as it has been.
Yes, you read it right . . . easy.
I've not woken up in the middle of the night with hunger pangs, wanting to raid the refrigerator. I don't want to sneak a couple of candy bars, here and there. Believe it or not, there's a 1/2 gallon of Turkey Hill Neapolitan ice cream that's been in the freezer since January. I haven't even been tempted.
Again, I think it's because I started on the green smoothies back in January. I'm just wondering if it's some kind of appetite suppressant.
Exercise has been something of a problem. Because of my Multiple Sclerosis, my mobility is often limited, However, I just bought my niece, Anike, a new Wii dance disc. One of the songs on it was Miriam Makeba's song from back in the 60's -- Pata Pata. Shoot, as soon as I heard that I jumped up and started doing the moves along with the cartoon figure on the screen. (Yeah, I know I'm not using the correct terms, but whatever . . . ). I only did 7 minutes, but hey . . . it counts toward cardio, and it's better than nothing!
But anyway . . . it's nice to know I'm actually losing weight. It's only 10 pounds so far, but hey!!!!!
I really am going to be down by at least 100 pounds by June 2016!!!
(In my best James Brown voice)
I FEEL GOOD . . . YOU KNEW THAT I WOULD . .. I FEEL GOOD . . . YOU KNEW THAT I WOULD . . . SO GOOD . . . SO GOOD . . . 'CAUSE I LOST 10 POUNDS!!!!
HEAYAH!
I know James Brown hadn't yet started wearing an Afro when he sung this song, but I decided to sport mine, anyway. <grin> This is a picture of me at my new 277 pound weight, taken yesterday, April 11th.
So a few days ago I posted on Facebook that I was on a diet, and the response was so touching I actually shed a couple of tears. Here's that April 9th post:

I can't believe how easy it is to stick to this diet. I have to stay under 1,270 calories a day, and I only messed up once in the last two weeks. I got an app, MyFitnessPal, that helps me count calories and log meals and exercise...and lets me know how close I am to my goal. This dinner of three chicken wings , one cup of white rice, six ounces of cabbage, with one tbsp of chicken fat (flavoring is a necessity!) comes to less than 600 calories! I'm doing well!!!!
(Actually the meal was 681 calories, but I was still 18 calories under my daily allowed limit!)
I don't know why I decided to share it on Facebook, I've been going back and forth as to whether I should share the journey, but, well . . . I'm definitely leaning toward it
I've been doing okay with my daily diet . . . but not great. The crazy thing is I sometimes -- in fact, quite often -- have trouble eating the required calories. I think one reason is the green smoothie that I have every day is so filling.
In fact, I kind of think that my starting on the green smoothie kick back in February is what has been making this weight-loss journey as easy as it has been.
Yes, you read it right . . . easy.
I've not woken up in the middle of the night with hunger pangs, wanting to raid the refrigerator. I don't want to sneak a couple of candy bars, here and there. Believe it or not, there's a 1/2 gallon of Turkey Hill Neapolitan ice cream that's been in the freezer since January. I haven't even been tempted.
Again, I think it's because I started on the green smoothies back in January. I'm just wondering if it's some kind of appetite suppressant.
Exercise has been something of a problem. Because of my Multiple Sclerosis, my mobility is often limited, However, I just bought my niece, Anike, a new Wii dance disc. One of the songs on it was Miriam Makeba's song from back in the 60's -- Pata Pata. Shoot, as soon as I heard that I jumped up and started doing the moves along with the cartoon figure on the screen. (Yeah, I know I'm not using the correct terms, but whatever . . . ). I only did 7 minutes, but hey . . . it counts toward cardio, and it's better than nothing!
But anyway . . . it's nice to know I'm actually losing weight. It's only 10 pounds so far, but hey!!!!!
I really am going to be down by at least 100 pounds by June 2016!!!
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Sunday, April 05, 2015
The Journey Starts!
(editing note: This post was written April 5th, but was not made public until May 15th. This is because I'm still gathering the needed courage to actually let people see my vulnerabilities and failures. So, if you're viewing this, please take the time to comment -- let me know that I'm not just posting all this stuff for nothing!!!!! please?)
Well, the journey actually officially started on Wednesday, March 25th.
I downloaded an app called MyFitnessPal just about midnight the day before, after going through my iPhone App Store for free calorie counting apps. I only wanted an app that would help me figure out the calories in the foods I ate, but I lucked up with MyFitnessPal -- it was so much more.
First off, it asked me to input my profile. So I truthfully put in that I was 5 feet tall, and weighed 287 pounds, and that I wanted to go down to 137 pounds.
It asked me about my activity level, and I had to honestly put "Sedentary" since I have multiple sclerosis, and often can't do much exercise (even walking can be difficult some days, although I do have days I can manage to do quite a bit.)
When they asked how many pounds I wanted to lose per week I wanted to put 5 pounds, but the app wouldn't let me. It explained that the most a person with my profile should lose per week is 2 pounds. I thought that was a bummer, but I did then say 2 pounds.
MyFitnessPal then calculated that I should eat no more than 1,270 calories per day, but no less than 1,000 calories. Fifty percent of those calories should be from carbohydrates, 20 percent from protein, and 30 percent from fat.
So yeah, I was loving me some MyFitnessPal. <grin>
Okay, each day I am supposed to look up the caloric count of the food I eat for breakfast, lunch, and dinner, and snacks, and then app will tell me how I did for the day.
So, for my first day I had a 16 ounce green smoothie for breakfast. The calories were 306 calories. I even have my home-health aide, Brenda Munson Glover, on the green smoothie kick now! (That's her on the right!) Ingredients for my smoothies are listed at the bottom of this post.
For lunch I had 2 cups of Hot and Sour Soup. That was 350 calories.
I was writing that night, and had no dinner; but had 3 oranges throughout the day for an additional 210 calories.
So my total calories for the day was 866. Believe it or not, the app then gave me a lecture about not eating enough, and that I had to eat at least 1,000 calories a day for safe weight loss.
I couldn't believe an app would actually give me a lecture. I love it! LOL
Thursday, March 26th:
Breakfast:240 calories
1 medium orange - 70 calories
1 hot Italian sausage link - 170 calories
Lunch - 309 calories
green smoothie - 309 calories
Dinner - 555 calories
1 cup white rice - 205 calories
6 ounces Skirt Steak (steamed rare, with sliced onions and mushrooms) - 350 calories
Total caloric intake for the day was 1,243.
The app seem pleased with me to be so close to 1,270 calories, and rewarded by me by saying that if I continued in this manner, I would be 277 pounds in 5 weeks.
Yeah, I like this app!
So, on Friday, March 27th I wasn't feeling well and slept late, missing both breakfast and lunch, but having steak, rice, and a green salad for dinner. Caloric intake was only 433, and I got a lecture. <sigh>
Saturday, March 28th - I'm really glad I'm a good cook, because I know how to spice up food with things that have almost no calories, like mushrooms, onions, bell peppers, garlic, etc. And also, when I want something, like duck a l'orange, I can make it myself and just count up the calories for the things I use to make the sauce (orange juice, brandy, cornstarch, sugar).
I say all this to say I had duck a l'orange for dinner, with rice and broccoli. The dinner came up to 611 calories, (that was 4 1/2 ounces of the duck and sauce, one cup of rice, and one cup broccoli.), my breakfast and lunch came up to 289 and 350 calories, respectively, and so my total for the day was 1,269 calories. I was rewarded by saying if I kept it up I would be at 277 pounds in 5 weeks.
I did well up until last night. That's when my 6-year old niece, Anike, and 8-year-old nephew, Akinseye, came over. My breakfast was the usual 307 calories, but lunch and dinner . .. whew! Lets just say pizza, chicken wings, soda . .. smh. I seriously considered either not inputting what I ate, or just lying. and making up something that would keep me within my caloric limitations.
But I thought about it, and the only person I would be cheating would be myself.
Shoot!
So, I did the right thing -- I recorded it on the MyFitnessPal app. My caloric intake for the day was 2,027; 757 calories over my limit.
But you know what? I'm glad I went so much over the limit, because it's reaffirmed my belief that I can do this. So yeah, I've only been on this diet for . . . what . . . 11 days and I already messed up, but I didn't cheat! I was honest, and I held myself accountable.
I know that I can do this, and that by June 20, 2016 -- my 58th birthday -- I will have lost at least 100 pounds.
Yeah. I can do this!
Green Smoothie Recipe: One handful of baby spinach, one stalk of celery (leaves and all), 1/8 of medium size lemon (with peel), 3 sections of medium size orange (without peel), 2 large chunks of fresh pineapple (without peel), 1/2 medium peach (with peel), 1-1/2 bananas (without peel), 1 tbsp Chia seeds.
All of the fruits should be bought fresh, and then frozen. This way you don't have to add ice to the smoothie to make it cold -- which only increases the volume. - I started this daily smoothie regime in February, and since then I no longer have to take diabetes or high-blood pressure medicine.
P. S. Hope you'll leave comments!!
Well, the journey actually officially started on Wednesday, March 25th.
I downloaded an app called MyFitnessPal just about midnight the day before, after going through my iPhone App Store for free calorie counting apps. I only wanted an app that would help me figure out the calories in the foods I ate, but I lucked up with MyFitnessPal -- it was so much more.
First off, it asked me to input my profile. So I truthfully put in that I was 5 feet tall, and weighed 287 pounds, and that I wanted to go down to 137 pounds.
It asked me about my activity level, and I had to honestly put "Sedentary" since I have multiple sclerosis, and often can't do much exercise (even walking can be difficult some days, although I do have days I can manage to do quite a bit.)
When they asked how many pounds I wanted to lose per week I wanted to put 5 pounds, but the app wouldn't let me. It explained that the most a person with my profile should lose per week is 2 pounds. I thought that was a bummer, but I did then say 2 pounds.
MyFitnessPal then calculated that I should eat no more than 1,270 calories per day, but no less than 1,000 calories. Fifty percent of those calories should be from carbohydrates, 20 percent from protein, and 30 percent from fat.
So yeah, I was loving me some MyFitnessPal. <grin>
Okay, each day I am supposed to look up the caloric count of the food I eat for breakfast, lunch, and dinner, and snacks, and then app will tell me how I did for the day.
So, for my first day I had a 16 ounce green smoothie for breakfast. The calories were 306 calories. I even have my home-health aide, Brenda Munson Glover, on the green smoothie kick now! (That's her on the right!) Ingredients for my smoothies are listed at the bottom of this post.
For lunch I had 2 cups of Hot and Sour Soup. That was 350 calories.
I was writing that night, and had no dinner; but had 3 oranges throughout the day for an additional 210 calories.
So my total calories for the day was 866. Believe it or not, the app then gave me a lecture about not eating enough, and that I had to eat at least 1,000 calories a day for safe weight loss.
I couldn't believe an app would actually give me a lecture. I love it! LOL
Thursday, March 26th:
Breakfast:240 calories
1 medium orange - 70 calories
1 hot Italian sausage link - 170 calories
Lunch - 309 calories
green smoothie - 309 calories
Dinner - 555 calories
1 cup white rice - 205 calories
6 ounces Skirt Steak (steamed rare, with sliced onions and mushrooms) - 350 calories
Total caloric intake for the day was 1,243.
The app seem pleased with me to be so close to 1,270 calories, and rewarded by me by saying that if I continued in this manner, I would be 277 pounds in 5 weeks.
Yeah, I like this app!
So, on Friday, March 27th I wasn't feeling well and slept late, missing both breakfast and lunch, but having steak, rice, and a green salad for dinner. Caloric intake was only 433, and I got a lecture. <sigh>
Saturday, March 28th - I'm really glad I'm a good cook, because I know how to spice up food with things that have almost no calories, like mushrooms, onions, bell peppers, garlic, etc. And also, when I want something, like duck a l'orange, I can make it myself and just count up the calories for the things I use to make the sauce (orange juice, brandy, cornstarch, sugar).
I say all this to say I had duck a l'orange for dinner, with rice and broccoli. The dinner came up to 611 calories, (that was 4 1/2 ounces of the duck and sauce, one cup of rice, and one cup broccoli.), my breakfast and lunch came up to 289 and 350 calories, respectively, and so my total for the day was 1,269 calories. I was rewarded by saying if I kept it up I would be at 277 pounds in 5 weeks.
I did well up until last night. That's when my 6-year old niece, Anike, and 8-year-old nephew, Akinseye, came over. My breakfast was the usual 307 calories, but lunch and dinner . .. whew! Lets just say pizza, chicken wings, soda . .. smh. I seriously considered either not inputting what I ate, or just lying. and making up something that would keep me within my caloric limitations.
But I thought about it, and the only person I would be cheating would be myself.
Shoot!
So, I did the right thing -- I recorded it on the MyFitnessPal app. My caloric intake for the day was 2,027; 757 calories over my limit.
But you know what? I'm glad I went so much over the limit, because it's reaffirmed my belief that I can do this. So yeah, I've only been on this diet for . . . what . . . 11 days and I already messed up, but I didn't cheat! I was honest, and I held myself accountable.
I know that I can do this, and that by June 20, 2016 -- my 58th birthday -- I will have lost at least 100 pounds.
Yeah. I can do this!
Green Smoothie Recipe: One handful of baby spinach, one stalk of celery (leaves and all), 1/8 of medium size lemon (with peel), 3 sections of medium size orange (without peel), 2 large chunks of fresh pineapple (without peel), 1/2 medium peach (with peel), 1-1/2 bananas (without peel), 1 tbsp Chia seeds.
All of the fruits should be bought fresh, and then frozen. This way you don't have to add ice to the smoothie to make it cold -- which only increases the volume. - I started this daily smoothie regime in February, and since then I no longer have to take diabetes or high-blood pressure medicine.
P. S. Hope you'll leave comments!!
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Thursday, April 02, 2015
My Weight-Loss Journey (Why I decided to undertake it, and why I've decided to share it.)
Some of you may remember me mentioning in a blog post a few years ago that I had decided to undergo gastric bypass surgery.
Well, because of various health issues (I have multiple sclerosis along with a few other issues), I put off pursuing the surgery until earlier this year.
In the meantime, I bought a Vitamix in January, and started drinking daily green smoothies in early February.
By March, people started telling my skin had taken on a glow; I no longer had to take diabetes medicine since my diabetes disappeared, and my blood pressure stabilized and I was taken off of high-blood pressure medication.
Yeah!
Also in early February I went to the required orientation for bypass surgery. The nurse who was giving the orientation was talking about what would be required of patients, both pre-surgery and post-surgery. One of the things she said was that patients would have to restrict their caloric intake to about 1,000 calories per day after the surgery in order to lose weight.
I raised my hand and asked: "Well, if that's the case, couldn't we just restrict our caloric intake now and just skip the surgery?"
There were seven people attending the orientation besides me. A few chuckled. At least one just went ahead and let out a long and loud laugh. The nurse gave me an amused look and said: "Well, obviously, if you were able to do that, you wouldn't be here, now would you?"
Now, for those who don't know me well, let me explain something . . . I have always had the belief that I could do anything.
I'm quite sure I could learn how to build a nuclear reactor and then build one -- I just choose not to.
Yes, I knew that caloric intake was a key factor in losing weight, but I never committed myself to learning about portion control and the science of counting calories because it seemed so much work and so hard to maintain that I always figured there had to be a better way.
Read the above paragraph again, please.
I never thought I couldn't do it, I just felt that if there was an easier route to weight-loss, I would just take that.
For the nurse to say that it "obvious" that I was incapable of restricting my caloric intake without the help of surgery, really bothered me. I didn't argue with her, nor did I say anything else during the remainder of the orientation. I was too busy thinking.
I was quite slim as a child and in my teens, and while I gained a few pounds in my late teens and early twenties. When I enlisted in the U. S. Navy in 1980, I was documented as five feet even, and 118 pounds.
But my weight slowly started creeping up in my mid-twenties. I was a whole 143 pounds (eek!) when I was twenty-seven and found out I was pregnant with my daughter. I went up to 195 pounds during my pregnancy, but three months after Camille was born -- in April 1987 -- I was back down to 147.
Three years later I was up to 165.
Thirteen years after that I was up to 210.
I then went on a carbohydrate limiting diet, and after only six months I was back down to 185, and quite proud of myself. I maintained that weight for a year but, then, in late 2004 . . .
. . . I was diagnosed with a brain tumor.
Bummer.
So 2005 was a hectic year for me.
January, I threw an engagement party for my brother, Joe Quinones. I live in Philadelphia, and the party had to be held in Queens, NY since his fiancée's family lived there, so it was kind of difficult planning and transporting all the party stuff.
February, Found out I was nominated for an NAACP Image Award for my fourth novel, Ida B.
March, I flew to Los Angeles (I live in Philadelphia) to attend the ceremony. (I lost to T. D. Jakes.)
April, I had to go prom dress shopping for Camille who was about to go on her senior prom, two weeks later I had to cradle her in my arms when she was put on suspension (rightfully so, by the way) and couldn't attend the prom.
May, I had to attend my daughter's high school graduation. And at the last minute at that. She had decided she was going to boycott the ceremony since Central High School had the nerve to ban her from the prom, but then at 10:00 the morning of the ceremony (which was scheduled to begin at 9:30 a.m.) she came into my bedroom to say she changed her mind. We hurriedly showered and dressed and drove downtown to the graduation, and got there 30 seconds after her name had been called. But her best friend grabbed her and said: "Don't worry, they haven't called my name yet. You'll just walk with me." So Camille walked with her, and I got to applaud my daughter receiving her high school diploma.
June, I underwent successful surgery to remove my brain tumor.
July, I wrote 25,000 words to meet my deadline and complete my fifth novel, Passin'.
August, I drove from Philadelphia to Atlanta to bring Camille to her new school, Clark Atlanta University. I stayed three days, shopping for furnishing for her dorm room, going to various orientations, etc. Then I drove back, alone, to Philadelphia.
September, I arranged and hosted the Rehearsal Dinner for my brother's wedding. Then participated, as a principal, in the elaborate (and so beautiful!) Yoruba wedding ceremony the next day.
Dang if I remember the rest of the year, but I do know that by late December I weighed 215 pounds.
When I was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis, in 2008, I was 235 pounds.
By December 2014, I was 287. Yikes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
So, I go to that gastric bypass surgery orientation in February. And I decide I don't need gastric bypass surgery.
I can do it on my own.
I can do anything, remember?
The reason I decided to document my journey?
Well, for one, I thought by letting everyone know what I was doing it, it would keep me from backsliding.
Secondly, I figure there might people who might benefit from reading what I'm doing. Maybe I can motivate them.
Or, maybe some folks will find it entertaining!
Either way, if you do decide to follow me on this journey, I hope you'll leave comments to let me know what you think!!
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Wednesday, December 17, 2014
Falling Back to Black
Category: Commentary
Posted by: Donnell
ABOVE PHOTO: Bill Cosby (Randy Miramontez / Shutterstock.com)
By Karen E. Quinones Miller
This whole Bill Cosby situation has me
remembering witnessing a one-car accident in the Chestnut Hill
section of Philadelphia back in 1993.
I was the first one on the scene and helped a well-dressed African American woman out of the car–she had run into a lamppost.
She clung to me for a moment, and since
she didn’t seem hurt, I asked if she needed to use my cell phone. Before
she could answer, a group of concerned white people came rushing over
to assist, and the African American woman pushed me away so hard and
fast I almost fell as she rushed to meet them.
A little hurt, but much more befuddled, I got back in my car and watched the unfolding scene.
The group momentarily crowded around her,
breathing concern and offers of assistance, but as they realized what I
had already ascertained — that the woman was drunk — they slowly peeled
away until she was alone.
She then staggered over to my car, and I
let her in, once again offering my phone so she could call for help.
After she called her husband, she said she didn’t want to “bad talk
white folks,” but my not abandoning her proved that Black people know
how to stick together.
I was so pissed I could have hit her.
Instead, I told her I had to leave so she’d have to wait outside for her husband and the tow truck.
It gave me great satisfaction that just as I pulled away it started to pour down rain.
A couple of years later, when O. J.
Simpson was acquitted of killing his wife and Ron Goldman, I remembered
that woman and that incident.
And now, as Bill Cosby makes his appeal to the “Black media,” I’m remembering it again.
I think it is interesting that Cosby has
asked the Black media to stay “neutral” regarding the sexual abuse
allegations being made against him. Not objective. Neutral.
There is a big difference between neutral
and objective. As a wordsmith, I know the difference…and I’m sure Bill
Cosby does, too.
During World War II, Switzerland remained
neutral. They didn’t join either the Allied or the Axis forces. They
didn’t want to choose sides. They wanted to stay out of it; to stay
neutral.
Even when the human atrocities being
committed by Hitler and the Nazis came to light, the Swiss continued to
be their banker and their vault. In fact, after the war many Jews had to
appeal to the Swiss government for the return of their artwork,
heirlooms, and personal treasure.
So, really, the Swiss actually profited from their neutrality.
To be a neutral journalist means not caring who is right or wrong.
To be an objective journalist – on the
other hand — means not letting your personal biases affect you as you
write about what is going on, or blind you as you seek the truth.
It also means then presenting that truth in a fair and balanced manner.
So, this Black member of the media will not be staying neutral… can’t stay something I never was.
But I will always strive to be objective. No one should expect me to be more.
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Wednesday, December 10, 2014
Join a Writing Group
| Theresa Brunson Diane McKinney Whetstone |
One of the questions I'm asked most often when out on the lecture circuit or out on a book tour is: What advice would you give aspiring authors?
My answer is always the same. Join a writing group.
What, you might ask, is a writing group?
It’s simply a group of
writers who get together on a regular basis to give each other critiques,
advice, and support. And for someone who’s just starting out, it’s the best
thing you can do to get your literary career started on the right track.
“It was a tremendously
helpful experience for me,” says bestselling author Diane McKinney-Whetstone.
“Some writers don’t like to have the writing read, but I loved the feedback I
was given.”
McKinney-Whetstone was a
member of the Rittenhouse Writers’ Group when penning her first novel,
“Tumbling,” which was published in 1999 to critical acclaim.
“I was stealing time
from everything – stealing time from my life to work on this novel, and I had
no idea if I was doing anything right,” says McKinney,
who has since published four other books with Harper-Collins. “It wasn’t until I joined the group that I
finally felt validated. And the criticism was helpful.”
McKinney-Whetstone – who
is polishing up a new novel due out late next summer – is one of the most
successful novelists to come out The Rittenhouse Writers’ Group, which has been
around since 1988. The writing group is actually a series of quarterly writing
workshops, and costs more than $500 per quarter.
But a writing group
doesn’t have to be pricey to be good. In fact, most writing groups are free and
quite worth your while.
Book writing is a
solitary task and you can worry for hours, days, or weeks, about whether or not
you’ve described something in just the right way. You don’t want to find out
when you finally submit your manuscript to a literary agent or a publisher that
you did, indeed, get it wrong – because that one little mistake may not be so
little in their eyes…and might lead to a rejected manuscript.
“According to my sister
– the only one I showed what I knew was soon-to-be a New York Times bestselling
novel – I was the greatest writer who ever set pen to paper,” says Veronica
Axelrod, a receptionist from North Philadelphia.
“But when I started sending it out to literary agents, all I got were rejection
letters.”
But not only were they
rejection letters, Axelrod says, they were form rejection letters . . . the
worst kind. Which meant the agents didn’t even think enough of her writing to
give her encouraging comments.
A despondent Axelrod was
browsing in a bookstore and saw a posting from a woman looking for writers
interested in forming a writing group. She jotted down the number, gave the
woman a call, and the following month she was a member of The Love of Writing
Writers’ Group.
“It wasn’t until I
joined that I found out that my book was constantly changing points of view
from first-person to third-person. A big no-no,” Axelrod says with a laugh.
“Looking back at that manuscript now, I’m actually embarrassed.”
Love of Writing – which
has no membership dues – has seven members and meets at a different member’s
home each month. None of the writers have had a book published yet, but four of
them have had short stories published in literary magazines.
Theresa Brunson, a Philadelphia
attorney, had been working on her novel, “The Get Money Clique,” for years in
private, never showing it to anyone. It wasn’t until she attended a writing
workshop that she realized that her masterpiece had a big problem.
The average novel is between 63,000 and 95,000
words long. Brunson’s manuscript was well over 200,000 words.
A few months later,
Brunson joined the Eveningstar Writers’ Group. “The Get Money Clique” was
trimmed down to a manageable 98,000 words, and she’s received interest from two
different major publishers.
“I love the camaraderie
that a writing group offers, and the feedback you get from the different
personalities in the group,” Brunson says. “It built up my writing skills, but
it built my confidence, too.”
Eveningstar, which has
no membership dues, was created in 1999 by a group of four women, none of whom
had ever published a book. Since its creation, five members have had novels
published by major publishers, and two more have self-published their books.
Members and past members include the late Leslie Esdaile Banks, Hilary Beard,
Jenice Armstrong, Mister Mann Frisby, Fiona Harewood, Akanke Tyra Washington,
and, ahem, Karen E. Quinones Miller.
Most writing groups meet
once a month, but Eveningstar meets weekly. Members submit up to 20 pages each
Sunday, and then meet on Tuesday evenings at a member’s home to have their
submissions critiqued.
The good thing about
this is everyone’s work gets feedback, and suggestions on next steps, every
week. The bad thing is meetings sometimes last up to five hours.
It’s grueling, but it
seems to work. At least it does according to Sharai Robbin, who recently signed
a two-book contract with Strebor Books, an imprint of Simon & Schuster.
“Meeting weekly keeps me
writing since I have to submit something every week,” says Robbin, whose book,
“Candace Reign,” will be published next fall. “Eveningstar keeps me
accountable, and it keeps me motivated.”
Not all writing groups
meet in person. There are a number of groups whose members have never met
face-to-face, but get together over the Internet to share and critique each
other’s works.
Jennifer Coissiere,
author of the self-published novel, “Crossing Over,” has been a member of Snaps
1000 Words for a little over a year. But although she and her fellow members –
Shonell Bacon, PR Burson, Makasha Dorsey – all have published or self-published
novels, they only use their writing group to critique each other’s short
stories and essays.
“Someone had an idea to
write 1,000 word stories inspired by a picture, and that’s how the group
started,” explained Coissiere, though the members do offer each other
encouragement and advice on their individual books.
Coissiere’s group has a
website, www.snaps1000words.com;
Eveningstar Writers’ Group can be found on Facebook; and the website for the
Rittenhouse Writers’ Group is www.rittenhousewritersgroup.com.
The Love of Writing Writers’ Group has no Internet presence, and is not
currently accepting new members.
So what kind of writing
group should you join? It depends on what kind of group fits your needs. Some
people prefer groups that meet monthly because of busy schedules. Others prefer
weekly groups because it keeps them motivated to write on a daily basis.
Not all writing groups
critique all genres. If you’re interested in writing a memoir, make sure that
the group you’re considering joining is interested in more than fiction.
My advice would be to
ask if you can sit in a couple of meeting to see if you can actually handle the
critiques the members offer. And don’t ever join a group where the members are
cruel with their critiques, or make them personal. The rule is it’s the work
that is to be critiqued – not the author.
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Saturday, December 06, 2014
Law Enforcement's Message To Black Community
Posted to Philadelphia Daily News: Sunday, December 7, 2014, 3:01 AM
By Karen E. Quinones Miller
IT WAS BACK
in the 1960s, and I was living in Harlem. A white police officer chasing
a criminal through the Foster Housing Projects fired at the man and
missed. The bullet pierced the skull of a young African-American boy, a
bystander.
That lone white officer was surrounded by scores of African-American and Latino residents, and you know what he did? He knelt down and scooped up the boy's lifeless body in his arms, and cried as if it were his own son whom he killed. And do you know what those many housing-project residents did? They tried to comfort the officer. And when the child's mother finally made it to the scene, they told her it was a horrible accident. Many of them then prayed - with the mother and the officer - over the boy's body before it was taken away a few minutes later to the city morgue.
That officer's grief didn't "unshoot" the boy, but it did something else I couldn't name as an 8-year-old watching the scene.
It wasn't until 18-year-old Michael Brown was shot and killed in Ferguson, Mo., in August that I realized what that something else was. And how much it mattered.
Of course, it would be irrational for anyone to think that Darren
Wilson, the officer who killed Brown, should get down on his knees and
cry.That lone white officer was surrounded by scores of African-American and Latino residents, and you know what he did? He knelt down and scooped up the boy's lifeless body in his arms, and cried as if it were his own son whom he killed. And do you know what those many housing-project residents did? They tried to comfort the officer. And when the child's mother finally made it to the scene, they told her it was a horrible accident. Many of them then prayed - with the mother and the officer - over the boy's body before it was taken away a few minutes later to the city morgue.
That officer's grief didn't "unshoot" the boy, but it did something else I couldn't name as an 8-year-old watching the scene.
It wasn't until 18-year-old Michael Brown was shot and killed in Ferguson, Mo., in August that I realized what that something else was. And how much it mattered.
But it would also be irrational to believe that a community wouldn't be up-in-arms about the fact that Brown's body was left in the middle of a street - uncovered and unattended - for more than four hours in the hot August sun. Or that they wouldn't be upset witnessing the police refusing to let his distraught parents approach their dead son.
"Having raised two African-American males, the thought of that happening is just unfathomable," said Linda Richardson, a Philadelphia community activist I spoke with shortly after the incident. "I was just distraught looking at the video and screaming, 'When are they going to put something over him?' To show that kind of disrespect was just unreal and unbelievable."
If Richardson felt that way just watching the video, imagine how the people at the scene felt.
Patricia Bynes, a Democratic committeewoman in Ferguson, seemed to feel the same way as Richardson. She told reporters that it was "disrespectful" for the police to have left the body there in plain sight.
"It also sent the message from law enforcement that, 'We can do this to you any day, any time, in broad daylight, and there's nothing you can do about it.' "
The message sent by law enforcement - that was the "something else" that I couldn't articulate way back in the 1960s.
Harlem is no stranger to riots. They rioted in 1935, in 1943, in 1966, and again in 1968. And, yeah, we had a small riot (by Harlem standards) in Washington Heights, a neighborhood bordering Harlem. All of the riots were started in response to either a police shooting or police brutality.
Yes, Harlemites were veteran rioters. So why didn't they riot after that white police officer killed a very innocent young boy? Maybe because that police officer's very obvious grief sent a message that our feelings, our rights, our lives mattered to him.
Maybe the people in Ferguson did riot the day after Michael Brown was shot because they received a very different message.
In Wilson's testimony to the grand jury that decided whether he would be charged for killing Brown, he described the teenager as looking like a demon; not a human.
And although it's true the citizens of Ferguson - which is 67 percent African-American - were not privy to Wilson's testimony when the rioting started in August, they'd had bitter issues with their police force, which is 94 percent white.
Last year the Missouri Attorney General's Office released a report that said Ferguson police were twice as likely to arrest African-Americans during traffic stops than whites. The U.S. Justice Department is currently conducting a civil investigation to see if that police department has a pattern of using excessive force and/or racial profiling.
Hundreds of African-American citizens of Ferguson stood outside that August afternoon: Looking at the body of an unarmed teenager. Staring at the teenager's family, crying because they were not allowed to check to see if they body was really that of their child. Having their questions ignored by police who refused to give any information. Those citizens received a message that they had been receiving for years - that their feelings, their rights, and perhaps even their lives, meant little to the police.
It's a hard message to receive. A hard message not to answer.
The complete opposite of the message sent that 1960s Harlem summer.
Thank God.
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Thursday, November 27, 2014
Memories of Old Black Bookstores
I grew up in Harlem, and one of the
fondest memories I had growing up was my father taking my twin sister
and I to 125th Street to a large store with a bunch of crazy signs and
posters outside. Signs like “Repatriation Headquarters – Back to Africa
Movement – Recruiting – Register Here!” Posters like “Get Away Jordan.
Let Gods Chullon By.”
To my little 4-year-old mind there seemed
to be a million books in the store, but it wasn’t until much later that
I realized it was actually a bookstore. A pretty well-known bookstore,
at that. – The famous Michaux Bookstore, frequented by the likes of
Malcolm X, and Eldridge Cleaver.
But if you had asked me back then, I
would have said it was a place for my father to hangout and talk to a
bunch of guys about politics, history, and about Crayola having a crayon
called “Flesh” that didn’t look like our flesh at all.
When I moved to Philadelphia, I was
ecstatic to find there were other bookstores like that here. Bookstores
like Hakim’s Bookstore on 52nd Street, where the owner, Dawud Hakim,
would sit and talk to teens about respect, and self-awareness, and made
sure that they all knew who Carter G. Woodson (“He’s the man who lobbied
for the schools to teach you all Black History”), W.E.B. DuBois was
(“He was a great man who went to Harvard, and helped start the NAACP.”),
and the Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. were (“I don’t even want to
hear you not knowing about him.”)
Hakim also made sure that the parents of
those children, knew about the Countering the Conspiracy to Destroy
Black Boys series written by Dr. Jawanza Kunjufu when they came to his
store. He’d talk to them for a few minutes – or a few hours, if they had
the time – and then he’d go into the back of the store and do their
taxes if was needed.
Hakim understood what most proprietors of
African-American bookstores understood – the vital need in the
African-American bookstores fulfilled a vital need in the
African-American community.
“There was a little tiny black bookstore
in the Gallery that I used to go to all the time, when I was a
teenager,” said Rosalyn McDaniel, an attorney who lives Mt. Airy. “I
never knew what I wanted, but that was okay, because the woman who owned
the store must have been psychic or something. The first book she
recommended to me was Flyy Girl by Omar Tyree, and I remember she was
also the one who turned me onto Diane McKinney.”
Basic Black Books was the name of the store, and the owners were not only helpful to readers, but to authors, also.
I self-published my first novel, “Satin
Doll,” in 1999 and as any self-published author will tell you – if you
want to sell, you’ve got to get on bookshelves. But the problem was it
darn near impossible at that time to get into a chain store unless you
had a major publisher behind you, or you already had a proven sales
record. But, of course, it’s hard to get a sales record if stores won’t
carry your books.
I remember walking into Basic Black Books
and introducing myself to Lecia Warner Bickerstaff, who owned the store
with her husband, Joel. I had 10 copies of Satin Doll with me, and
Lecia said she’d take five and see how they sold before ordering more.
Two days later I got a call from her. She’d read “Satin Doll,” loved it,
and wanted more copies.
“I’ve been telling all of my customers about it. Can you bring me 15 more?” she said.
Well, she kept on recommending it; and
within three months Basic Black Books had sold more than 300 copies of
my debut novel. And it was because of them, and other African-American
bookstores that my books are now carried in major chain stores
nationwide as well as on Amazon.com
But I wasn’t the only author helped by African-American bookstores.
“There’s probably not any self-published
author who made it to a major publisher who didn’t do it without the
help of the black bookstores,” said Linda Duggins, director of publicity
for Grand Central Publishing.
Many people may not remember, but New York Times bestselling authors like E. Lynn Harris, Omar Tyree, and Kimberla Lawson Roby all self-published their first books.
“It was the black bookstores that got
them the recognition to be known throughout the country,” said Duggins.
“It was through their efforts that we were all introduced to these
authors.”
Basic Black Books is no longer in the
Gallery. It closed down in 2003, and was replaced by another
African-American bookstore, Horizon Books, which closed earlier this
year. Liguorius Books, which opened in the Cheltenham Mall in the mid
1970s shut their doors in 2006. Know Thyself Bookstore and Cultural
Center, which was owned by poet and social activist Del Jones and
Brother Deke is also a thing of the past, as is La Unique
African-American Bookstore which was the only African-American owned
bookstore in Camden.
But it’s not the Philadelphia area
African-American bookstores that have fallen to the wayside, said Troy
Johnson, creator and founder of the African-American Literature Book
Club website, better known as AALBC.com.
“African-American bookstores have taken a
huge hit because of the super chains like Barnes and Noble, and online
superstores like Amazon.com,” said Johnson, who has been tracking
African-American publishing since 1998. “Just 10 years ago there were
five times as many bookstores nationwide than there are now.”
Johnson, who operates in Harlem, said
most African-American bookstores could not compete with the deep
discounts offered by the new competitors, and so people started shopping
elsewhere.
But, the declining numbers of
African-American bookstores should concern not only authors and avid
readers, but the African-American community as a whole, Johnson said.
“These bookstores served not only as
establishment that sold books, but also a place where conscious people
could meet and discuss various matters affecting the community, and
could exchange ideas,” Johnson explains. “African-American bookstores
were places that facilitated deep thought and discussions. It’s a shame
to see them go.”
Wesley Bryant, 67, of North Philadelphia, would agree.
“I buy all my books at African-American
bookstores, and always have,” Bryant said. “I think it’s important to
support black businesses, so I do.”
Bryant, who has a PhD in Social Work said
even as a student he only used white-owned bookstores to get text
books. When asked if the college bookstores carried African-American
books, Bryant said he didn’t know.
“I never thought to ask, because I wasn’t
going to buy them there,” Bryant said with a deep chuckle. “Their focus
is not my focus. Never was, and never will be.”
Bryant said he now buys most of his books at Black and Nobel Bookstore, located on Erie Avenue in North Philadelphia.
Hakim Hopkins, the owner, started out as
book vendor and opened his store in 2003. It’s a testament to his
business acumen that while African-American bookstores all over the
country have been struggling to survive, he actually expanded his store
last year.
Black and Nobel stocks a variety of books
– from novels to non-fiction; from street-lit to religious texts. The
store, which has a strong online presence, also ships books to prisons
and correctional facilities.
Black and Nobel is one of only two
African-American bookstores left in Philadelphia. The other is Hakim’s
Bookstore, which I mentioned much earlier in this article.
Dawud Hakim died in 1997, but one of his
last wishes – according to his daughter Yvonne Blake – was that the
family keep the store open as long as possible. Blake and her sister,
Davita Butler, manage the store which is now open only on Fridays and
Saturdays.
“My dad’s been dead for 17 years, and my
sister and I fully intend to honor his wish, but it’s been hard,” said
Blake, who is 63. “The unfortunate thing is that we will likely have to
close in another year or so.”
Blake, who is 63, explained that her
mother is extremely ill, and she and sister have are struggling to take
care of her and also run the business. Sometimes they can get other
family members to staff the bookstore, but not always. And there’s
simply not enough money to hire full-time clerks.
“We have some very long-time customers
who still come by when we’re open, but our overall customer base has
dwindled significantly,” Blake said. “We can hope for a miracle, but
unless one comes soon, the store will have to be closed permanently.”
Johnson, who keeps track of the opening
and closing of African-American bookstores, said he is saddened by
possible closure of Hakim’s Bookstore, and wished more people in the
African-American community were also.
“There’s hardly any discussion about it
all, and practically no coverage about the situation in the media. I get
the impression that people really don’t stress themselves about it.”
Johnson said in a resigned voice. “If they did care, the
African-American bookstore might still be viable.”
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Sunday, November 16, 2014
Reading is still FUN-damental… The Philly Book Club experience
ABOVE PHOTO: Brothers and Sisters Book Club members at Warmdaddys event for Sonia Sanchez. (Photo by Karen Q. Miller)
By Karen E. Quinones Miller
“If you want to hide something from a black person, put it in a book.”
No one knows the author of that now infamous statement, but we’ve all heard it, and many of have cringed when we did.
Of course it’s not true; but if proof is
needed to show the fallacy of the statement, it’s the large number of
African American book clubs that exist across the nation. Groups of
people who get together to not only read, but to discuss what they’ve
read and share opinions.
“Being in a book club has exposed me to a
great number of books that I never would have otherwise read, and meet
people whom I met never have otherwise met,” said Shirley Coker,
president of the Philadelphia chapter of Go On Girl Book Club, an
organization that boasts more then thirty chapters nationwide.
Coker’s chapter includes women of all
ages and social economic levels – the only common denomination being
their love for books. “It leads to great conversations and great
fellowship,” she said.
Edward Cohen, president of Brothers and Sisters Book Club agrees. His club has members as young as 20, and as old as 80.
“Since the club is so diverse, the
meeting and book discussions can sometimes be lively,” he said with a
laugh.” Lively, and sometimes heated, but nothing is taken personally.”
Cohen is an avid reader, but also
scrabble player, and often played with a group of people which included
neighbor, and co-founder of the book club, Marsetta Lee.
“Whenever we got together to play we’d
wind up talking about books that we were reading, the themes, the good
and the bad,” said Cohen who was living in Trenton at the time. “Then
someone said we need to start a book club.”
The first meeting occurred in 1995, and
the first book was Brothers and Sisters by the Bebe Moore Campbell.
There were 12 people at the first meeting, and one of the things they
decided was that all of the books they read would be by African-American
authors.
“The general public doesn’t seem to realize that African-American writers need additional support. When they list books on the New York Times Best
Sellers List, you seldom see African American books, though there are
some excellent African-American authors,” explained Cohen, who now lives
in South Philadelphia.
The New York Times Best Seller’s
List is based on the number of books bought in a particular week. Cohen
adds that the African American community has enough economic power to
get good African-American books on the list, but don’t.
“A lot of us support the white authors
not realizing we are not supporting our own,” explained Cohen, adding
that group wanted to become part of the solution rather than add to the
problem. “So we decided that we give them our support.”
And African American authors acknowledge
that they have benefited from the support. Kimberla Lawson Roby
self-published her book, “Here and Now,” in 1997 and met with book clubs
in her hometown of Rockford, Illinois, and eventually around the
country, to get the word out. And it worked. People started talking
about the book and about having met the author. Roby landed a huge
publishing deal with a major publisher, and is now a New York Times best selling author.
“Book clubs have been a huge blessing to
me and my writing career for years, and it is the reason I visit with as
many of them as possible,” said Roby, whose new book, A Christmas Prayer was published earlier this month.
Roby now sometimes meets book clubs by
Skype or by telephone conference when she’s not able to appear
physically. She also hosts an annual contest, open exclusively to book
clubs called “Have Dinner with Kimberla Lawson Roby.”
“It’s my way of giving back to book clubs for making such an amazing and incomparable difference in my life.”
Eric Jerome Dickey is another author who was pushed to the New York Times bestseller’s list through the help of book clubs.
“If it weren’t for book clubs, I would
never have had a career. The word-of-mouth promotion we get from them is
more powerful than the ads taken out by the establishment for other
writers” said Dickey, whose latest book is “A Wanted Woman.” “If t
wasn’t for book clubs, most authors from my community would be dead on
vine.”
Especially new authors, said Mister Mann Frisby, who self-published his first book, Blinking Red Light, in 2002.
“Putting out a new book is a daunting
task so when you get 10 to 12 people who love your book it’s like
hitting a jackpot,” said Frisby, a former staff writer for The Philadelphia Daily News.
“Because while there may only be a dozen women at the book club, these
women then go to work, and tell people how much they love the book, and
loved meeting the author.”
The snowball effect led to Frisby being
offered a publishing contract from Penguin Books, which also published
his second book, “Wifebeater.”
Frisby, who also wrote the acclaimed book, Holla Back: But Make Sure You Listen First,
said that he has maintained his contacts with the book clubs, and uses
them as test readers – sending them chapters of the new detective story
he is writing.
Ashley Richardson, of Mount Airy, started
Women Reading for Wisdom Book Club in September. Their first book was
Dusty Crowns by Heather Lindsey, and the next book on their agenda is The Art of Activation, by Lucinda Cross.
“It started as something informal, a few
of my friends and people they invited,” explained Richardson, 26, a
native of Mount Airy.
But book clubs aren’t something exclusive
to adults. The Overbrook Park Teens Book Club meets twice a month at
the Overbrook Library, and read a variety of books that deal with the
subjects adolescents deal with in real life.
“It’s been a great experience for me,”
said Erykah Raleigh, 16, a sophomore at Girls High School. “I’ve been
reading since I was six, and it’s good to interact with people my age
who like to read, and see how they feel about what we’ve read.”
Each member of the group, which started
in 2011, takes turns selecting a group read. Raleigh said her turn is
coming up next, and she is considering offering up, Pinned, by Sharon G.
Flake.
Raleigh and other members of book clubs
are living proof that African-Americans do read, and seem to live out
the motto of Black Nationalist leader, Malcolm X.
“Read absolutely everything you get your hands on because you’ll never know where you’ll get an idea from.
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Friday, November 07, 2014
Kidnapping Suspect's Uncle Recognized Him From Videotapes - But Did Not Notify Police
Philadelphia Daily News
PHILADELPHIA -- It was horrific. A 22-year-old
nursing assistant viciously kidnapped in Philadelphia; a video showing her
kicking, struggling against her assailant who -- it was later discovered -- allegedly
kidnapped, raped, and attempted to murder a 16-year-old girl just a month
before.
But there may be something more horrific: A relative of the suspect could have notified the police of the man’s identity, but chose not to.
“I suspected it was him,” Lamar Barnes, answered when asked on the cable network show, Dr. Drew On Call last night if he recognized his nephew, Delvin Barnes from the many videotapes and photographs released by the police.
When the show’s host, Dr. Drew Pinsky, then asked why he didn’t call the police, Lamar Barnes answered that family doesn’t turn over family members to the police. Then added: Especially people of color.
Carlesha Freeland-Gaither's kidnapping ordeal ended Wednesday – three days after her abduction, through the efforts of law enforcement officials in three states, and the help on one man -- Dwayne Fletcher, 37, who witnessed the ordeal, and immediately called the police, using a cell phone that Freeland-Gaithers had deliberately dropped on the sidewalk during the attack.
But there may be something more horrific: A relative of the suspect could have notified the police of the man’s identity, but chose not to.
“I suspected it was him,” Lamar Barnes, answered when asked on the cable network show, Dr. Drew On Call last night if he recognized his nephew, Delvin Barnes from the many videotapes and photographs released by the police.
When the show’s host, Dr. Drew Pinsky, then asked why he didn’t call the police, Lamar Barnes answered that family doesn’t turn over family members to the police. Then added: Especially people of color.
Carlesha Freeland-Gaither's kidnapping ordeal ended Wednesday – three days after her abduction, through the efforts of law enforcement officials in three states, and the help on one man -- Dwayne Fletcher, 37, who witnessed the ordeal, and immediately called the police, using a cell phone that Freeland-Gaithers had deliberately dropped on the sidewalk during the attack.
But it might have ended sooner if Barnes’ uncle or any other family member had contacted the police as soon as they suspected it was him in the video.
When asked if police department had any comment about Lamar Barnes' admission, Public Affairs Officer Jillian Russell would only say: "At this point, Carlesha is safe and [Delvin Barnes] is custody and we are going to let the prosecution process take place."
Philadelphia community activist Maisha Ongoza said there may be systemic reasons for people of color to hesitate going to the police.
“But let’s make it clear, it’s not because they have some allegiance to crime. I think it’s more of a fear that if they turn someone in that person might get beaten by the police, or not get a fair hearing,” said Ongoza, who recently retired as coordinator of the Say Yes to Education, Bryant Chapter.
Ongoza also wanted to make clear that she believes that Barnes’ uncle should have notified the police when he suspected that his nephew was the perpetrator, especially since he knew about Barnes’ violent history towards women.
Barnes was arrested in 2005 for breaking into the home of his estranged wife, hitting and choking her, and then attacking her parents when they tried to come to her aide. According to reports Barnes was sent away for seven years and, moved to Virginia when released last year.
Just last month Barnes allegedly walked up on a 16-year-old girl in Virginia and hit her in the head with a shovel; he then kidnapped and raped her, then showed her photographs of other girls who he said were his previous victims. Barnes is said to have doused the girl with bleach and gasoline, and had started digging her grave. Miraculously, the girl was able to escape. DNA evidence linked Barnes to the crime, and Virginia authorities put out a warrant for his arrest.
Surveillance cameras show Freeland-Gaither had just gotten off a SEPTA bus at the intersection of Coulter and Greene streets at 9:40 p.m. Sunday when she was approached by a man who grabbed her. Though she fought him all the way, he dragged her to his car and shoved her inside.
The sole witness to the crime was Fletcher, and Philadelphia police have said that had it not been for him, they may not have even known, until too late, that a crime had been committed.
The question, though, is whether the crime could have been more quickly solved if Lamar Barnes had notified the police when he suspected the man shown in the pictures and videotapes was his nephew.
“That’s just preposterous. He ought to be ashamed of himself,” said 26-year-old East Oaklane resident, Gelea L. Matthews when she heard about Lamar Barnes' remarks on the show. “I understand family ties, but you have a duty, as a human being, to say something when you know someone’s life in danger.”
Supreem Da Rezarekta’, a well-known Philadelphia MC, said that there was simply no justifiable excuse for anyone who recognized Delvin Barnes on the videotape to sit back and do nothing.
“I even understand the whole ‘no-snitch’ stuff, but the deal is sometimes you have to step up and do the right thing,” said the entertainer. “Don’t worry about the code of the streets or anything. How would he feel if it was his daughter?”
In his defense Lamar Barnes, who has said that he has a daughter and granddaughters, claimed that if he knew how to contact his nephew he would have tried to convince him to turn himself in.
Lamar Barnes also told Dr. Drew that he wished the Freeland-Gaither’s family well, and is glad that their daughter is back home with them.
Filed 8:05 a.m. by Karen E. Quinones Miller
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